This is a question that many young boyfriends and girlfriends have – “Is my significant other talking to their ex on Snapchat?” If so, why are they doing this and what can I do to stop them or catch them? Before making any assumptions, remember that dating at a young age is a very challenging process. In fact, “dating” is not even a thing anymore for most teens and college students. Before you accuse your boyfriend or girlfriend of talking to their ex on Snapchat you might want to sit down and confirm that you are in a relationship with that person.
That being said, how can you tell if your significant other is talking to their ex on Snapchat? This is very easy. All you have to do is look at their chat history on Snapchat to see which Snapchat text, pictures and videos they have opened. Some people will try to be sneaky and will rename their ex to something that makes it looks like they are not interested. It may be something like “ew” or “asshole” or “I hate you”. No matter what the name is, if the Snapchat messages are opened, they obviously care about that person in some form or fashion.
Most boyfriends and girlfriends are not going to simply give up their phone to let their significant other check their Snapchat. For this reason, it can be difficult to figure out if your bf or gf is talking to their ex. If you notice they are using Snapchat a lot when you are around and they do their best to hide it, there is reason for you to be suspicious. If they bring their phone with them when they go to the bathroom or put their iPhone face down when you are around there is a chance they are hiding something. If they aren’t hiding something, why are they constantly making sure you can’t see their phone.
Snapchat allows users to remove private snaps by deleting conversations. Habitual cheaters are sure to do this just like they are sure to delete all their text massages. You can ask your bf or gf to stop deleting their conversations or texts if they have nothing to hide.
If you are suspicious of your bf or gf talking to their ex on Snapchat, what have you done? Did you end up breaking up with them?