Time and again we hear from girlfriends of military boyfriends that are cheating. They were once able to look at the phone of their boyfriend but most guys are aware of this so they just get a new phone number or a second phone. Unfortunately, girlfriends and wives have no idea what to do when their military boyfriend has cheated on them. Fortunately, there are plenty of options.
The first option is to get out of the situation as soon as possible. This can often be hard because military boyfriends and husbands try to corner their significant others by paying all the bills and the housing. Young girls are especially vulnerable when they need a place to live or want to move out of their parent’s house. If your military boyfriend convinced you to move in very early in the relationship this is a sign that he is moving way too fast.
If you are currently living in military housing and you know he is cheating, you have to take the steps to get out of the relationship. The first step is to find a job or save up money so you can afford your own rent or pay your own bills. This can often be very difficult as military guys do not want their girlfriends or wives to be seen by other guys. Can you say controlling?
If that is not an option, you can have a serious conversation with your military boyfriend that you are not comfortable with his actions. Do not immediately throw all the blame on him. Accept that part of this might be your fault as you have not been the best girlfriend or maybe you haven’t pleased him enough. Take part of the blame and try to work out your differences.
If he is unwilling to admit he cheated and you have proof from Snapchat, Facebook, Twitter or Instagram you can be rest assured it is never going to change. Do your best to remove yourself from the situation and learn from the military boyfriend experience. If you learn from it, you will find a much better guy in the future; hopefully one that does not have the military boyfriend cheating mindset.