In 2019 and into 2020, this is getting more and more common. If your crush, boy or girl, doesn’t text you back, but they view your Snapchat story, what exactly does this mean?
Over the last few months I have hopped on Twitter to see what people are discussing when it comes to Snapchat. Almost every single time I see tweets like this:
when he views your snap chat story but doesn’t text back ???????????????????
— Emersyn ♡ (@emmysez2) October 21, 2015
*doesn’t text back* *views snapchat story immediately* — Amanda Lerom (@amandalerom) October 21, 2015
If people are tweeting it, they are likely searching it. Searches like, what does this mean or does he like me? From a male perspective, let me be the first to say that if he is viewing your Snapchat story he finds you physically attractive. He may not be attracted to you in other ways but he definitely wants to see you if he is viewing your story. If he screenshots the story you definitely know he is into you. Post something that is hard to see in a Snapchat story and see if he screenshots it. If you want to marry the guy, well, that is a completely different article altogether.
From a female perspective, who the hell knows? I would like to say that she has a reason for not texting back but no guy has figured that out. Some girls are honestly busy while others want to play the game of seeing who responds first.
No matter what your relationship status is, recognize that face to face communication is always the best. If you want to have a long term, successful relationships playing games through text and Snapchat is not going to be healthy. It feels great to “win” when it comes to playing these games but if you are playing games you are not going to be in a long term relationship for very long. If you are, the relationship will have plenty of bumpy roads.
Instead of worrying about the other person not texting back, pick up the phone, give them a call and discuss any issues or concerns you may have. I know this is crazy, but a smartphone can make telephone calls. Give it a try!