Doesn’t Text Back But Views Your Snapchat Story – What Does it Mean?

In 2019 and into 2020, this is getting more and more common. If your crush, boy or girl, doesn’t text you back, but they view your Snapchat story, what exactly does this mean?

Over the last few months I have hopped on Twitter to see what people are discussing when it comes to Snapchat. Almost every single time I see tweets like this:

If people are tweeting it, they are likely searching it. Searches like, what does this mean or does he like me? From a male perspective, let me be the first to say that if he is viewing your Snapchat story he finds you physically attractive. He may not be attracted to you in other ways but he definitely wants to see you if he is viewing your story. If he screenshots the story you definitely know he is into you. Post something that is hard to see in a Snapchat story and see if he screenshots it. If you want to marry the guy, well, that is a completely different article altogether.

From a female perspective, who the hell knows? I would like to say that she has a reason for not texting back but no guy has figured that out. Some girls are honestly busy while others want to play the game of seeing who responds first.

No matter what your relationship status is, recognize that face to face communication is always the best. If you want to have a long term, successful relationships playing games through text and Snapchat is not going to be healthy. It feels great to “win” when it comes to playing these games but if you are playing games you are not going to be in a long term relationship for very long. If you are, the relationship will have plenty of bumpy roads.

Instead of worrying about the other person not texting back, pick up the phone, give them a call and discuss any issues or concerns you may have. I know this is crazy, but a smartphone can make telephone calls. Give it a try!

If you feel you have the highest Snapchat Score or the longest Snapchat streak, email us a screenshot at jesse@wojdylosocialmedia.com.


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Picking up the phone and calling her is a terrible idea if she hasn’t responded to your texts! That screams desperation!

Sasha
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Sasha

Hey i have the same problem with a guy I’m talking to but he view my snap chat stories and never message me back what to do ?

Lola
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Ditto mate x

shana
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This is happening to me right now

John Murray
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John Murray

The same thing is happening to me. She is seeing my snaps and i checked her instagram and she’s still following people but she won’t reply to any of my messages. I’m getting really worried invade she’s not intrested, seeing someone else or just full on ignoring me

John Murray
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John Murray

I meant to type in case not invade

Rob
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Rob

What happened with her?

Daniel Lockwood
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Daniel Lockwood

Happening to me too. I text her on both messenger and Snapchat. No reply but she opens my snap and that’s it and always views my story. Have I done anything wrong?

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M for mike

Its obvious a girl likes a lad if she continuously checks his story’s.to be honest . I don’t check everyone story’s. Only the girls I like to date. If you see a girls name that you used to be close keep popping up on your story I can definitely say there trying to see what your up too and that’s a sure sign there not willing to say ,I fancey you. This goes booth ways. If you didn’t want to check on someone you wouldn’t open there story.

Anon
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Anon

Okay bro but what if I argued with her boyfriend and had a bit of an argument with her?

Christina Jones
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Christina Jones

He did the same thing I text him on sc and all he does is look at the message and ignore it. And he’s mostly the first or second to view my snapchat stories. But idk if he screenshots it. What do I do?

Maria
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Maria

Sometimes I do that! My crush sends me snaps I open them but I won’t reply because I don’t know what to say I don’t want to say smth stupid

Cinthia
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Cinthia

This guy, said to me, u should get Snapchat as he playfully, not hard, waked me on the shoulder. I got it a little before he told me, and anyway I got distracted so didn’t ask for his Snapchat because my friend was tryna get mine. When I got home and was on snapchat , he was on quick add, so I added him, and he added me in like a minute. But yeah he always checks my story’s but never replys. Recently when he posted, doing my homework for the first time, I replied and said, lying we got… Read more »

cece drake
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cece drake

i snapped my crush over an hour ago and then a few minutes ago noticed he liked someone’s instagram post so i know hes not social media. just avoiding me

L wise
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I texted my bf at 11:05 this morning and he viewed my sc story but never responded. Then I tried to ft him and he didn’t answer. UGH

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Same thing happened to me. But (she) then texted me later saying she wants to hangout sometime. Then replied to me on Snapchat hours later completely ignoring what I said and just replied with “what are you up to?” So it confuses me how she wants to hangout 1on1 but ignores my messages for hours. Is she really in to me or not? Wtf 😂

Genevaa
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Genevaa

Omg same here but a little different with me looking desperate or what not. A friend of mine and I wanted to try a dating app and this guy and I had a lot in common he had his snap under his name, so I added him. He won’t messages me on the dating app or Snapchat but he’ll view all of them!! So my friend said man up and messaged him again with a screenshot of his snap. Today she sent him a lighter of me. He opened it but nothing he hasn’t viewed my snaps yet but opened… Read more »

Anonymous
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Anonymous

Same here, but things shifted when I didn’t answer his dating question. So now I’m just ghosted, I’ll send a message so he knows where my head is at, and he’ll reply, but then reads whatever I send next. I really like this guy, and I know he likes me, but I don’t like the anxiety feeling. And I know he is ignoring me, because I see that he has been active on Facebook messenger.

Jason Tomas
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Same here, girl ghosted me but added me on snapchat and still views my stories/opens my snaps but does not respond to messages. I’ve been on a date with this girl and she said she had a great time and she was touchy/feely with me. I sent her a nice farewell text and that’s the end of it for me.

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Annonymous

Hey, I met a guy out 3 months ago and we swapped numbers. Since then we’ve been messaging and have met a few times also and all seemed to be ok apart from him being brutal for texting! He could go off the radar for anything from days to a week and a half. He never replied to my last text but since then accepted my snap chat add. I tried phoning him a few days later but he didn’t answer. He hasn’t contacted me since but keeps looking at my snap chat story which is very annoying. Any advice??

Mimi
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Mimi

Block him this may sound brutal but he’s not interested

Millie V.I.P
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Millie V.I.P

Same with me, he barely ever texts me and I ask him to meet up with me cause I haven’t seen him in a month and he says he’s effin busy. I did not respond after that. I unfollowed him on IG but kept him on my SC on purpose. I see he views my stuff . He knows how I feel about him why the hek he hurts me like this . Why does he view my SC .

Mimi
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Mimi

this sounds like my experience, men are all trash he just wants to hurt u for no reason so block him forget about him and be an independent successful woman

Will Seaton
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Will Seaton

A girl I like has opened all my stories but won’t reply when she opens my snaps to her. As a sort of test, I posted a story and I sent her a snap. She definitely saw my Snapchat because she viewed my story but didn’t open my message to her. Like wtf?

Sabrina
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Sabrina

Same thing happens to me! I chatted with a guy on snap for a little through the messages and after a while he’ll just not open my reply and leave me hanging for a couple days but will still watch my stories all the time. Isn’t it annoying to have the snap notification just sitting there? Lol

Michael
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Michael

Same exact thing is currently happening to me. So I’m on Instagram, and out of nowhere this girl adds me on both accounts, likes all my pics and posts flirty comments, then the minute I like a photo of hers and post a comment, she’s in my DMS asking for my Snapchat. Things start off awkwardly, to the point where we’re just sending flirty photos. Then out of nowhere, she leaves me on opened for the rest of the day. Next morning, I get a basic “streaks* group send but I shrug it off and reply. Then she opens it… Read more »

Alyssa
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Alyssa

I know same here but in person this guy and I talk all of the time and we really have a connection and a lot in common and he’s always checking me out and making eye contact. He even told me to snap him But when I do he either takes forever to respond and one time didn’t respond at all.

Shy_Girl
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Shy_Girl

Im really confused. I message this guy. He views my story everyday. Hes the first to view it. But it took him two days to open my message and didnt even reply. I message him again its been a day and he hasnt come back. But I dont wanna b3 desperate

Nestor
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Nestor

Had a thing with this girl but she ended it. I tried talking to her but she only reply’s for a bit and then goes ghost on me I’m always the first to message her . At first I would view her snaps because I wanted to see what she was up to but stopped because I needed to let go . Haven’t seen her stories at all but she views mine what does this mean ?

Miranda
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Miranda

My boyfriend of 1 year ignores my texts but opens my streaks? After that I messaged him on Snapchat and he opened it, but ignored it. He’s been acting strange lately, ignoring me , not talking to me st school, hasn’t held my hand since before CHRISTMAS (2 months ago, not counting This month) . I actually remembered something, once when we were talking on the phone his cousin asked, “is that brooklin?” And he quickly said, “ of course it’s not brooklin.” Now, brooklin use too go to our school, and everyone knew they liked each other. So, while… Read more »

Miranda
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Miranda

And they use to be friends before she came to our school and left, so I imagine he still talks to her as the one time I looked at his phone her contact was in it.

Ella
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Ella

So I’m in the same situation , but not quite . So me and this guy was dating and we hung out at his place a few times first two times we didn’t have sex and he would text all the time then we had sex (which was amazing) and he never switched up always text even after the sex , but then I started accusing him of talking to other girls , etc and the last time I was there he was sleeping on me and we watched movies then I just got this weird feeling of him texting… Read more »

Bubu
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Bubu

I dated a guy for 6 months he broke up with me because he said I’m phony which makes no sense he just wanted out the i text him a few times he always leave me unseen but his the first to watch my Snapchat story like I donr get it .

DiBiase2.0
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DiBiase2.0

This Girl I really like we usually talk through snap chat she didn’t give me her number but her snap guess trying to get to know me but we’ve always snapped but lately she will not reply to my snaps but Watches all my Snapchat stories am I wasting my time?

shana
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So i met this guy he is soo hot. In the summer i visited him and we had fun together playing games with our parents. We even went swimming together just the two of us. Then we exchanged phone numbers and started texting each other back and forth. After a while i had to confess that i had a crush on him. He told me he wan’t ready yet so i left him alone. After 2 months went by i texted him saying hey how are you? and etc, he did not text me back but then i went on… Read more »