If you are dating any female under the age of 25 you have likely gotten the text or Snapchat message “WYD”. Why is it that all young girls constantly want to know what guys are doing? Why doesn’t she just text that she wants to see me or hang out? Are there any girls that aren’t constantly on their iPhone or Android texting or Snapchatting their friends and other guys?
It is very important to understand that most young girls need attention. If you are dating a girl in middle school, high school or college, they are at an age in which they are used to getting attention 24/7. If you don’t give them the attention they want, they are going to get it from someone else. This is important to understand when it comes to dating or “seeing” someone of the opposite sex.
If you are one of those guys that does not like to constantly talk or text it can be very difficult to have a girlfriend or hookup buddy. Is it worth it to constantly text or Snapchat them just to have a girlfriend? Should you always be available just because they are bored?
The answers to these questions can only be answered by you. If you too like attention and constantly want to text or Snapchat, it should not be difficult to keep up with the girl or girls in your life. If you are the type that likes to get away and not look at your phone, you are going to have many relationship problems with your girlfriend or crush.
So, what can you do? The first thing you should do is lay the foundation for what your crush or girlfriend can expect. If you are always available to them when they text or Snapchat “WYD” you are telling them that they have you where they want you. They know you aren’t talking to or seeing other girls because they are going to get a text from you every time they text you first.
Honesty is always the best policy. If you have no desire to have a girlfriend and you want to see many girls, you should tell them. Do not try to sneak around and text girls while with other girls. This is only going to cause problems down the road. There are plenty of high school and college girls that will still hang out with you even if you are seeing other girls. In fact, the more girls you have in your life, the more attractive you are.
Keep this in mind when your girlfriend is upset that you don’t respond to “WYD”. Let her know that you have other things going on and you do not have your phone on you every second of the day. That being said, if you do not respond to her quickly you cannot expect her to respond to you quickly.